WAYS TO CONTROL MASTURBATION

Masturbation has caused so many effects in a man's life. Some of theses effects have already been mentioned in my other articles.
Today we are to treat on they controls of masturbation.
Firstly,masturbation can be controlled by engaging yourself in some activities that will help keep your mind busy such as: taking a walk,watching some sport programs,reading the holy bible or holy koran as the case may be,avoiding any pornographic pictures or programs,engaging yourself in some new things which you have never tried since you were born like taking a piano lesson or any other music instrumental lesson and thinking about your future.
Secondly,avoid staying alone when you sense the feeling or argue to masturbate.
Thirdly,visit some holy men of God for some prayer session because its really difficult to stop masturbation without God's intervention.
Forthly,you need to tell yourself the truth whether masturbation is helping your physical or spiritual life. When you do this,it will help you realize that there is absolutely nothing to again in it.
The fifth point is finding someone who can encourage you and talk you out of it. Someone who you trust so well not to inform any other person that you do masturbate. Someone who can help you control such act.
The sixth point is to take a cold bath so to relieve you of the heat of engaging into such when it comes.
The seventh point is DETERMINATION. If you are not determined to stop masturbation then there is nothing anyone can say to you that can make you stop it. You need to be determined so that you can easily overcome the spirit of masturbation.
The eight point is listening to music. Music has a lot of support in this aspect because it helps to relax and cool your nerves and also send you to an Imaginary land which you have always dreamed of since your childhood.
The ninth point is BELIEVING that you are free from it and trusting any God you serve that you have been delivered.
The final point is having self confident and also praying for yourself. I do believe that the pray you render to yourself is even more important than the one others render to you. Every one has a fault and no one is perfect.
Thank you as you do these and I pray that it works for you.

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A NEW YEAR MESSAGE

I want to wish all my friends a happy new year and I pray that all your prayers will be answered this year.
Thank you all for visiting my blog and I promise that this new year will be better than last year and my messages of love and life will affect and also change some people's lives.
From my producer and I,we wish you all a HAPPY NEW YEAR WITH LOVE. Remain BLESSED.
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LOVE PLAY

This is a play that consist of a newly married couple. Her husband never knew she was a virgin until he de flowered her. This play is to tell us what happened on there wedding night:
Husband- Happy marriage baby(hugs his wife so tight)
Wife-(kiss her husband and thanked him)
Husband- I love you honey
Wife- I love you too sweet
Husband-let us go and take our bath
Wife- Am so tired and I have not bathed with a man before
Husband- There is a first time and am your husband now not a just a man. Women and pretends
Wife- ok I will join you later
Husband- (took his bath while the wife entered when he was through)
Wife- Am feeling better now after this hot bath
Husband- (start touching and romancing wife)
Wife- please stop,am tired
Husband- please stop this pretends
Wife-let me rest a little
Husband- okay
Wife-(slept off,by 2am her husband started romancing her again) stop please
Husband-(sucked her nipple,romanced her body and rubbed her vagina) I will stop
Wife- oh God,please don't stop
Husband-(he started making love to his wife)
Wife- oh my God its painful ahhhhhhhhhhhhh but don't stop doing it keep pounding it.
Husband- Arrrrrrrrrrrrgggggghhhhhhhhhhh
Wife- oh baby
Husband-(after 2hours sex,he reached orgasm with his wife) then he said: you didn't tell me you were a virgin,I never knew.
Wife-shhhhhhhh, am not any more.
Husband- I love you so much my baby girl,I will never hurt you, please rest now baby.
Wife- thank you.

That is the end of the love play. Its good to be de flowered by your husband.
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WATER FLOW (LOVE FLOW)

Water flow is the free passage of water through its channels and is not blocked by any obstacle. When you careful study nature,you will find out that nature is bless. Some of this nature gives us a clue of our emotional lives.
When it rains,the water that flow through the gutters or on track paths seem to move fast based on the nature of the rain. It might be either a heavy rain or shower or light rain. The more heavier the rain becomes the more faster the water flows. The more the rain,the more the ocean,rivers,stream, over flows. But when the channel where the water passes are blocked,we find out that water will flood that particular place. This will make the water to find another channel to pass through. This brings us to the issue of love flow.
Love flows like the water. When two people are in love,the more there emotions contract towards each other that is the more the water of love is been pushed through the two of them.
Sometimes,we seems to get bored of love because of our feeling is diminishing gradually which causes a blockage in the flow of love. This will lead you to look for other channels to follow there by cheating on your partner.
If you can give it a second chance by renewing our love by telling yourself the truth.
Never give up on the love you once felt for your partner,just unblock the channel and allow love to flow through you once again as it did when you both first met; this will to no room for break up. When you show more love to your partner,the love over fowls and turn to a flood of love. In some relationships where there seems not to be a true love,there is surely a blockage which lead to massive rate of break up.
All you need is to open up your heart when you love. Love as if there is no tomorrow,make your love life a beneficial part of your life. Just like the flow of waters,that is how it is with the flow of love.

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WOMEN & LOVE OF MONEY

In every relationship,money is involved and for the love to increase a man should be able to maintain his woman. We woman love money a lot because this money help to satisfy our needs. Any woman that doesn't demand from her man,must have another source that provide the money for her. Its either she takes from her parents,friends,assistant boy friends or from her relations.
Men should be able to know that in a relationship that money is denied or money isn't available won't stand firm because if the woman sees another man that is ready to spend on her she will definitely think of break up. The woman might say there is no problem about her lover not giving her money for her up keeps but when you search deep down her heart,there is a lot of problems. Every woman needs maintenance and care. If you want your woman to love you more,buy her gifts,give her money to make her hair,get her new clothes,take her out on a date,surprise her etc. This will make your lover see you as Mr perfect and Mr caring guy.
Men has brought out a formula of giving and collecting. If a man give his lady or lover some money to get whatever she want,he will collect the money through sex. The more sex he have with his lover the more money spends. Its rare to find a man that gives and don't collect back in kind.
In this modern days,girls do not care if they guys are collecting in kind or not. What the know is to change there ward robes,drive the latest cars in town,wear the latest jewelers etc. Money makes a woman love her man the more. Every one love money but when looking at this issue from another angel,we find out that its the women that love money the most. We women are never satisfied easily when it comes to the issue of money. As the say money is love and a man can not be ugly when he has a lot of money to spend around. With all this I have said,I believe that if you are a man that read this,take note of it and change your woman's mood by spending on her so she can be happy with you.
If you are a lady that read this,please note that men gives and collect in kind.
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Virginity Pride

What do we understand about the word virginity?
Virginity is known to be an untouched,unbroken and unused secret part of a woman or a man. Being a virgin is a good sign of purity,responsibility,holiness and a virtuous wthoman that is into a relationship. Some Men can be virgins but there virginity isn't as highly rated as a woman's virginity. These are some of the respects a virgin woman gains in a relationship:
1.Your lover will be so secured with his virgin wife or girl friend.
2.Any man that breaks a woman's virginity will never disrespect her if only she gave her virginity to the right man.
3.Her man or lover will love her forever.
4.Her man or lover will never take her for granted.
5.Her man will boost about his girl's or wife's virginity to his friend.
6.Your lover will protect and even over protect you.
7.Your lover will pet you so much and do what ever pleases you.
8.Your lover will never go after another woman because when he remembers his wife or girl that he de flowered,he won't have the mind to do such except a man that doesn't care.
9.Your family members will be proud to have you.
10.You will be proud of yourself.
11.The heaven rejoices when a woman has kept her virginity for her husband after several temptations and she will be de flowered by her husband after there wedding night.
All these and more advantages a virgin woman or girl derives. Guys will taste you virgins to know if your own type of virgin is a cheap one. They say lots of things that will discourage you and make you think that your years of keeping your virginity doesn't make sense,my dear never give up and keep to your pride.
Have you heard the saying that 'a lock that many keys can open,is a hole while a key that open many locks is a master key'. When you read about all this things,it gives you a clue that being a virgin is a good thing. Men pretends that the do not love virgins but when even the opportunity,the will take the advantage. I don't think there is a man that would love to marry a woman that many other men has ride on. Its just that the are not given the opportunity of having a virgin girl friend or wife that is why the criticize virgins. Virgins are scarce to find,if you are a virgin,be proud of yourself for your reward will come. Time will tell what the future holds. Never be discouraged by friends or guys that say the love you by having sex with you. Virginity isn't lack of opportunity rather its lack of opportunity for men that have no virgin. A word is enough for a while. If you are a virgin,be PROUD of yourself!.

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PROSPECTIVE THINKING 2

Let us continue from where we stopped in this topic.
1.An individual that always depend on another will not succeed in life.
2.A hard working individual is a pride to his/her owner.
3.The speed on which you use to fight your enemies,that is the rate they run.
4.Mind the types of friends you keep because some are meant to destroy while some are meant to rebuild our life.
5.Always follow your heart.
6.Nothing is hidden under the sun.
7.Its good to be evergreen and natural.
8.What is yours will always be yours no matter how far it goes.
9.God test our faith by allowing things happen the way they do.
10.Things happen so that the prophesy to be fulfilled.
11.Friends that we don't see now in our life has no use in the future of our lives but those we meet in the future are useful to us by then.
12.If you believe something is yours,fight for it and never give up.
13.What goes around comes around.
14.Time will tell what the future holds.
15.Jealousy doesn't pay so control it and don't let it control you.
16.An idol mind is a devil's workshop so get busy with your mind.


This is the last episode for this prospective thinking. Am still your host peaklyn ponj. For your stories and jokes please visit: www.peaklyn.blogspot.com
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